having sex before getting married

maybe this topic is too familiar with us, and some think there is nothing new to debate. It mostly depends on your life-style, your thought. Now we don't mention those stuff. just share your opinion : is having sex before you get married acceptable?

 

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having sex before getting married

Yes because... No because...

Why Not?

I believe that there is nothing morally wrong in having premarital sex. And why is that? Firstly, I'm certainly not saying that it's perfectly fine to have sex with any random person etc., because I strongly disagree with that one, but the thing is, I think that if you've found that person you find yourself connecting with, why not? I hear many people abstaining from sex before marriage, but why? It's all about choice I guess...but what about two people who have gotten married and then have sex, then divorce...what's the point then? Most likely they'll have sex again before they get remarried won't they?
Sex is not like contemplating an assination or anything like that. It's a carnal desire that's very natural and quite normaL. Okay sure, nothing is wrong with holding back or whatever, but for me, I live in the moment. Nothing is immoral about sex before marriage.

Everybody actions their life to their own particularly stance on morality. More and more people in the western world have become disillusioned with the hypocriticsy that is the Christian church that they have veered away from it. If your philosophy is that of some devout faith (whatever religiion) then fine, but imposed on the rest of us.

NO, I wish to differ on having premaritual sex. The most obvious point is that it is immoral having sex with so many people before getting married. Now, if person A is having premaritual sex with B, how sure are they that they will marry. In every relationship there is probability of getting married or not, so why having sex with someone who you may not marry. What is you will have 15 ladies before marriage, are you going to sleep with all those-WHAT A RISK and IMMORAL Action.

having sex before getting married

Yes because... No because...

Religious grounds

It is easy to see why religions have prohibited marriage historically. Before contraception, sex would have inevitably sometimes led to becoming pregnant, and not being married would make child rearing difficult without welfare for single mothers. Historically society is also patriarchal, so it follows that men would desire the women they marry to be virgins.

Almost all religions prohibit sex before marriage. If you are religious and follow other rules set down by your faith, then you should follow this rule too. It is not up to you to question what god's will is.

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